Ways to Love

What is love? How do you love? Why love? These are some of the frequently asked questions, for maybe those confused and unsure of LOVE. The thought of being in love, the feeling of love and love itself is sometimes unknown, unsure and unclear. So, to clear our minds, let us one by one answer the questions above.


WHAT IS LOVE. According to Merriam-Webster, LOVE is (1) strong affection for another arising out of kinship or personal ties; (2) attraction based on sexual desire :  affection and tenderness felt by lovers; (3) affection based on admiration, benevolence, or common interests. For some people, they may describe love as the feeling of having butterflies in you stomach, feeling of being inspired always.

Love is wanting him to be happy even it’ll mean of you being hurt. Love is giving her the last pizza, of your favorite flavor. Love is being happy with his achievement. Love is about being proud of him. Love is about waking up early to give her a wake up call. Love is being happy of her, being happy. Love is not about being unable to live without one another, but love is about being incomplete without one another, so you strive for having him. Love is the most wonderful feeling God has given everyone.

Well,  1 Corinthians 13:4-7 answers what is love.


HOW DO YOU LOVE? There is no real way of doing love. But listed below would be the first three things that people consider with love.

  1. Love all. Loving all would mean loving everyone. Loving them when they are perfect and when they are imperfect. Loving all is seeing the good in everyone, never minding their imperfectness. Love the other person as you love yourself.
  2. Be the first one to love. Have the initiative of loving first. Love him first. Indulge yourself and fall in love. There is no harm in loving him first. Say what you want to say to him! It might help.source
  3. LOVE REQUIRES SUFFERING. That is the what you should always remember. Love requires suffering. It isn’t love when you don’t feel hurt of being away from him, being unable to take good care of him, being unable to have tell him what is best for him.

LOVE=(falling in love+hurting)repeat

WHY LOVE? Love is the best feeling. Love is what human beings are made of . Love is what man is made and capable of. We love, always. We love in our everyday living. Always remember, 1 Corinthians 13:8



You and I… done

I tried

I tried patching up everything

I tried not minding everything you have done

I tried patching us up

But you gave up.


You gave up on everything,

You gave up on everything that we built.

You gave up on giving another chance of us.

You gave up our love

You left me.


You said you love me,

I believed in you.

You know how much I love you,

I know you do.

It was then, me and you.


Before you left me, I was your everything

Before you left me, we we’re okay,

Before you left me, you were contented

Before you left me, everything’s fine.

But that was before.


I was your princess, back then

I was your everything, back then

I was your world, back then

Back then, where our lives are both okay

Back then.


I am hurting.

I am hurting hearing those words from you

I am hurting seeing how you are hurt.

I am hurting.

I will always be, without you. 


Today, you wished to meet me

At the place where we first met

Today, I am doing the best thing I know

To set you free

To give you back your happiness.


Walang iba.

Mahal na mahal kita, Alam mo ba? Ikaw at ikaw lamang, Walang iba. ‘Ba’t kailangang iwan, Aking mahal? Sana’y maintindihan Kung ba’t gan’to. Oh, walang ibang hangad, Ang puso ko Ito’y para sa atin at sa bukas ‘Di pa ba sapat ito, ‘tong puso ko? Sa akong pag alis, Ikaw lamang. Mahal na mahal kita, […]

Feeling: IDK

Thing is, it is slowly drifting
I was always happy before.
But, I do not know what happen,
I can’t be happy anymore.

I might be happy from outside,
But I am crying in the night.
From the memories that I had,
The emotions, I cannot fight.
Happy are the people who smile,
But it is not that all the time.
Sad are those you see when,
You cannot see the life within.

To the Love of My Life

It started one night,
One starry, starry night.
She found me in her arms,
Promised that no one harms.

She bathe me, she clothe me,
She love me all her life.
She gave me ev’rything,
Even it’ll cost her life.

Dear mama, i love you,
Thank you for ev’rything.
Now that I’ve grown enough,
Lul’bies for you I sing.

So Long, Love

It should’ve been the best christmas,
Because with you, i feel complete,
Yet, the best and good things don’t last,
For it wasn’t me whom your heart seek.

I watched you two across the hall,
Seemed so consumed, didn’t care at all
That someone wanted to start a brawl
‘Cos babe, it’s you whom I still fall.

I should move on, that is a fact,
‘Cos you seemed happy with her love,
So, I started to turn my back,
yet, she tripped, face down, WHAT A LAUGH

Acrostic Poetry

Yesterday, I arrived at my classroom late. Sir Darryl was already telling his instructions to the class. The only instruction I understood was we will doing an acrostic poem by passing around our paper with our name spelled vertically, to our classmates and they will be the one to fill out one of the lines with the letter of our name.

“An acrostic poem is a type of poetry where the first, last or other letters in a line spell out a particular word or phrase. The most common and simple form of an acrostic poem is where the first letters of each line spell out the word or phrase.”

And because I really don’t know what to do, I just copied what my classmate was doing and eventually I enjoyed putting random things on my classmates’ paper, well, knowing me and my empty brain hahaha. 

And after the activity, I received my paper with these writing in it.

J  olly but emotional

A  nnoying but happy

N  othing less, nothing more

A  mazing sometimes and pretty

I love the result because it explains who am I even though the people who wrote these things don’t know who am I.

If I mine was cute and okay, others fully stated that how admiring they are, how beautiful they are, and etc. On the other hand, others had their poem turned out to be a JOKE.

 kind and Beautiful

you Are the apple of my eye

Be responsible

are You responsible? Weh?


Look and chase for your dreams

if you don’t You can’t see your dreams

Live your life to the fullest
Eternity will be forever
Of course it is!

Isn’t it amazing? Haha.