What is love? How do you love? Why love? These are some of the frequently asked questions, for maybe those confused and unsure of LOVE. The thought of being in love, the feeling of love and love itself is sometimes unknown, unsure and unclear. So, to clear our minds, let us one by one answer the questions above.
WHAT IS LOVE. According to Merriam-Webster, LOVE is (1) strong affection for another arising out of kinship or personal ties; (2) attraction based on sexual desire : affection and tenderness felt by lovers; (3) affection based on admiration, benevolence, or common interests. For some people, they may describe love as the feeling of having butterflies in you stomach, feeling of being inspired always.
Love is wanting him to be happy even it’ll mean of you being hurt. Love is giving her the last pizza, of your favorite flavor. Love is being happy with his achievement. Love is about being proud of him. Love is about waking up early to give her a wake up call. Love is being happy of her, being happy. Love is not about being unable to live without one another, but love is about being incomplete without one another, so you strive for having him. Love is the most wonderful feeling God has given everyone.
Well, 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 answers what is love.
HOW DO YOU LOVE? There is no real way of doing love. But listed below would be the first three things that people consider with love.
- Love all. Loving all would mean loving everyone. Loving them when they are perfect and when they are imperfect. Loving all is seeing the good in everyone, never minding their imperfectness. Love the other person as you love yourself.
- Be the first one to love. Have the initiative of loving first. Love him first. Indulge yourself and fall in love. There is no harm in loving him first. Say what you want to say to him! It might help.
- LOVE REQUIRES SUFFERING. That is the what you should always remember. Love requires suffering. It isn’t love when you don’t feel hurt of being away from him, being unable to take good care of him, being unable to have tell him what is best for him.
LOVE=(falling in love+hurting)repeat
WHY LOVE? Love is the best feeling. Love is what human beings are made of . Love is what man is made and capable of. We love, always. We love in our everyday living. Always remember, 1 Corinthians 13:8